Psychopathy in 7 easy steps
Thats why psychopaths make the best celebrities.
Step 1:
Make people think that they are a little more “spesh ” than they are. This goes to women “who aren’t supermodels”, “who haven’t had a number 1 hit in 10 countries”, people “who aren’t as famous as they would like to be”…. They all need some charm, nix that, smarm, they all need a fairy god mother like psychopath to come along and belittle them and then try to put every cherry on top to make them feel better. They make them feel “equal” and then take the “equal” away if they are naughty.
Step 2:
Take someone else’s “aplomb”, because the psychopath’s head spins around on their shoulders, they want to take the head off someone else…. They do this by mustering all their smarm …. They don’t flex …. They have a reverse compliment at the ready and focus not on “flexing” but on taking someone else’s standing away…. The person with no personality disorder stands there mouth open while the psychopath drives their point home without anyone else having the legs to say otherwise.
Step 3:
They can outcharm anyone, the psychopath is the most charming person in the room. Its a smarm offensive. Schmarmageddon.
Step 4:
They don’t have any regrets and they boast about being a “regret free” person. They could have raped people or similar, harmed people on purpose or stolen or lied and they don’t regret it because it got them to where they are.
Step 5:
The psychopath’s friends are plentiful (you gotta stick with the psychopaths), the psychopath is always having the best life and the best time. Why? So you can’t call them a psychopath. If they tell a what ails them story it is so they can establish higher ground … don’t take the higher ground away from a psychopath… allow them to rise and then kick their feet out from under them.
Step 5:
The psychopath always has the best things. They have the best friends, the best houses, the best cars, the best lovers or the longest list (because there is so called safety in numbers), they have the best experiences and they carefully curate how their life appears.
Step 6:
They despise people who aren’t perfect like they are and my goodness don’t they feel sorry for them for not being as incredible as they are. They genuinely feel the only emotion that they can and that is feeling bad for people who aren’t like them. “Their hearts bleed for them”, they have to say it publicly because they’ve usually done something and they have to hide it with false statements. Oh what a pity for people who don’t understand that the person who is looking in the mirror admiring themselves and how they “got to the top”, saying “please don’t ask about me”…. Basking there in the attention their psychopathy is well hidden behind their achievements.
Step 7:
Co-option. They need you in their life, they want you to be co-opted … you see you don’t really exist in your own right and nor do you have the right to exist in your own right … no, you have to be co-opted… it’s fun isn’t it? The underlinings can’t see it, the narcs don’t care about it (psychopaths are drawn to narcissists and have great friendships), oh those mere mortals (read people who are more talented) the psychopath wants centre stage and doesn’t want people to outshine them or to take their attention or spotlight away.
There is a display of stupidity around psychopaths. Educated people can see it, people who have degrees can see it, people who are exceptionally wealthy can see it, people with critical thinking skills can see it, but you can’t help the stupid or complicit or narcissists. They need to be responsible for themselves and to not be cronied or co-opted into acting as a part of psychopathy.
When you have been targeted by a psychopath you can’t get out of their backwash. When you have been smeared by one you are in their whirlpool. People without critical thinking skills don’t care and won’t help, narcissists like them and support them and want the afterglow of their attention … yes the psychopath needed them to feel a bit special …. Idiots focus on how the person looks and what the person says. The psychopath always admits, “we tell people what we want them to think”, and then we distract them with our looks (that the target didn’t want because they could see a psychopath has developed by using those looks), and then we distract them with the beauty around us. Well if people want to sleep with them they mustn’t have met very many special or sexy people … they would be best to do as the psychopath does … just hire a beautiful hooker … at least then there is nothing that comes back to bite you.
Save being impressed for Hicksville, the easily impressed, these guys typically prey on the provincial or those of lesser talent.
Furthermore, never allow the psychopath to have the upper hand or they will “own” you.
A male celebrity could rape a child and if he is a good looking psychopath or if he tries to force men to sleep with him, or if he says that every male that he wants has to sleep with him he will still have a cacophony of support …. Because he just seems too nice to care about the “bad” things. He will claim that everyone wants to work with him.
They have plenty of excuses, people can help them and to distract away to a point that is not really the point at all. They have got all that goodwill that they have built up and painstakingly manufactured, so that they can do as they claim, and that is “get away with anything.”
You can always give them the “psychopath test”, is the psychopath attempting to put everyone else in the pejorative? Even clever, educated politicians and journalists can’t ever question a true psychopath.
Don’t those slick psychopaths make an art of making legitimate complaints look fun and doesn’t the psychopath excel at making the aggrieved party appear to be in the pejorative. That happened when I spent years trying to escape a violent marriage; women stepped in and he made ‘em all feel so pretty… I kept saying; just move in with one… but he wouldn’t.
It’s best to leave the “without conscience” disorders to either fake having a conscience, or to have their own little tizzy or their own little delusion about what has been done. They get a case of the “Wa, Wa’s”, they want everyone to care about the privileged first.
Narcissists and those calculated types who lack conscience and who dare not to care about consequences (they have a Masters in avoiding fallout and accountability), beware of the toddler tantrum and the “wa, wa’s.”
Being lighthearted or “fun” about their abuse just shows people that they truly are a psychopath. Warn them, warn them, whatever you do don’t be alone with them. A psychopath attempts to “train” people in what to think. Psychopaths are slick. Excrement rolled in sequins. Teflon coated… mud won’t stick… But its not mud… you have to peirce the Teflon with the truth. The Teflon is the psychopath part.
The paychopath test, psychopaths enjoy changing who you are and who you are to other people. Psychopaths want to reign over other people. Of course they want to be in the Royal Family.
Everyone knows that he wants to be in the Royal Family…they all want to help him and he thinks that whatever children that he has were worthy enough to be in the Royal Family. Because he stole… he said that stealing would help his children to get into royalty and that made stealing worthwhile. He also didn’t want me to have children or my work, he said that he needed all that space. I quipped, “ My goodness, do they even want to be there?” Then, “Who would dare to take the freewill away of a royal child?”
Psychopaths love to be visible, they crave power and to fill that hole inside them that should be full of emotions and love for people.
I said do you keep bringing up having to “fist” people so that you can steal millions of dollars ? You would have to be a psychopath to think that you should be able to get away with it; I said. He said that I should never have sex again and that men should have to “fist” me if I had sex again as a survivor of sexual assault. He claimed that the sexual assault was “great” because he was able to reference it to help steal.